tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16559846.post113811537960455748..comments2023-12-31T09:33:12.948-05:00Comments on No One Appreciates Me. At All.: Silver lining in McCray's loss?MSHhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01942835157934717545noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16559846.post-1138121230833962322006-01-24T11:47:00.000-05:002006-01-24T11:47:00.000-05:00Town: Are you sure it's just me? I definitely see ...Town: Are you sure it's just me? I definitely see a nose resemblance...<BR/><BR/>Wreck: I agree that a lot of it falls on the parent, but I would bet my car (if I had one) that the coaches spoke with and saw McCray waaaaay more frequently than his mother did during his college days. I'm not absolving her of responsibility - nor am I suggesting her finger-pointing is well-founded, although I am willing to excuse it since she was clearly upset during the interview because the reporter doing the story was the one who broke the news to her. But that said, part of a college coach's job is to make sure the players are going to class, and are getting help if they need it, and they should absolutely be actively keeping parents in the loop as a part of this. It feels like all the assistants (most, if not all, of whom are new to the staff) just figured someone else was "in charge" of the players' schoolwork, and as a result, McCray unfortunately fell through the cracks. <BR/><BR/>But most of all, I definitely blame McCray. Screw academics - his last year of eligibility wasn't important enough to him from an athletics perspective (and his potential future getting paid to play basketball, most likely overseas) for him to keep a 2.0? That's the dumbest thing of all. He mortgaged his entire future in basketball because he couldn't shake his ass to class. But that's just speculation. I definitely feel for him, and hope he can recover and learn from this.MSHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01942835157934717545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16559846.post-1138120187330671242006-01-24T11:29:00.000-05:002006-01-24T11:29:00.000-05:00I love it when parents sluff of the responsibility...I love it when parents sluff of the responsibility for their kids on someone else. The responsibility falls first with the kid and then with the parent. If parents are in tune with what their kids are doing, this kind of thing doesn't happen. There are plenty of warning signs that a kid isn't going to class - like when you ask "hey, what did you learn in school today" and the kid says "ummm.....I played playstation." That's a good clue that it's time to take an active approach. Goterps.Train Wreckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17352460232718525359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16559846.post-1138117368984057312006-01-24T10:42:00.000-05:002006-01-24T10:42:00.000-05:00Apparently, he just didn't go to class. McCray's ...Apparently, he just didn't go to class. McCray's mom suggested a previous assistant coach, Dave Dickerson (now head coach, or attempting to act as some semblance of a coach, at the ravaged Tulane campus), was in charge of ensuring players performed academically. Looks like they need to re-assign that role. Although, of course, at the end of day, the true responsibility falls on the student. And McCray seems to have given the same effort in class that he was on the court - good, but ultimately uninspired.MSHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01942835157934717545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16559846.post-1138117034721329412006-01-24T10:37:00.000-05:002006-01-24T10:37:00.000-05:00Dude couldn't maintain a 2.0? Why do they even al...Dude couldn't maintain a 2.0? Why do they even allow him to attend college? UMD spends so much money on these athletes, including providing private tutoring sessions all the time (oh, Hawley, remember the days of giving Lonnie game day advice?). It almost seems like it'd be harder to fail than pass, given these resources. He'd have to ACTIVELY try to fuck up. It makes me sick that the school could afford a decrease in tuition prices but pisses it away helping out people who have no business attending an educational institution. I know that people will argue "sports are an important part of a university" - and I agree whole-heartedly. But the MOST important part of a school is....you know...school. Without that, it's just a farm team.Train Wreckhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17352460232718525359noreply@blogger.com